The Controller

Is it a deep-rooted or hardwired human urge to control others? I wouldn't know as I've rarely ever felt it.
I've always seen myself as more of a good solider, not a leader. We have to stand out in the crowd somehow and I guess my lack of desire to lead is one of my defining traits.

Leading and controlling are two different things though; when you are trying to help someone, try to lead them. Control is never appreciated.